If you have time to complain, you have time to come up with a solution. If you have time to propose a solution, you have time to implement it.
You are special. Now Be remarkable!
At least that is what mommy and daddy told you right?
Here’s the kicker, the little dirty secret which mommy and daddy probably neglected to tell you. There are other 7 Billion humans in this world, everyone as special as you.
Do the math. If you want to be really special you better start getting up very early in the morning, go early to sleep, eat better, exercise and be the best that you can be day in and day out.
That is the only way you will ever be remarkable. Which is like 7 billion times better than being special.
Life is hard for everyone!
Well ok may be not for everyone. But bad things happen to all people. Chaos is fare because it does not make distinctions.
Accept that along the way, one or many bad things will happen to you and those you love. Find a way to deal with this and move on. Get back in the race soon because no-one is coming to help you if you are not helping yourself.
Live on your own. Although it might be kind of hard!
Finally. Ask how you can help!
In “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” –Yes I know you probably have read this one to many times already. But it is true– Dr Covey says that the problem is not life itself but the way we look at it.
Get it in your head. Crying about how difficult you’ve got it is for losers.
Be a winner. Instead of asking for help, ask others how you can help them